I used to think that being married would be a fairytale on earth.
Please don't get me wrong- i'm happily married with a wonderful husband & a newborn 4 month old baby boy who are the focus of my life!

Within the first year of marriage is where the rollercoaster ride kicks in. I won't disclose any details because in doing so would be so Islamically wrong. Just bear in mind that you choose the right guy/girl for marriage (i'm glad I did)....and in-laws are important to consider. Oh! And if you're in the middle of your studies and considering marriage, wait and think about it; better to finish off your studies- tis for the best, mate!

Heaps of sacrifices tag along with this marriage package; I miss doing my own thing, miss being with my parents and brothers (i'm youngest of 3 and only girl). You don't realise how precious spending time with your family is until you've been separated from them. Things are just different after married life and you don't even notice the months passing by.

It's 1.07am, eyelids are drooping and my 4-month old son is still awake after 1/2 an hour of feeding......I feel drained out; i've gotta end this entry now before I faint.

Peace.